Monday, November 3, 2008

Just me - to add my two cents worth to a "comment" that was made here - and has since been deleted.

I found it hurtful, nasty, offensive, distasteful and cruel. And it hurt me very much. I guess you get the point.

The person who left this message, did not have the guts to leave his/her name. So, showing what a coward they are.

I don't mind people writing and voicing an opinion - but not when it gets mean and nasty- then I draw the line.

Now, I am sure that there will be a good comment from Brian. But if you can't write anything nice, then don't write at all. This blog was written to inform people, to cry and laugh with people and to just stay up to date.

Roni

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Roni, I'm sorry to hear you had to put up with ignorance from someone. You are wonderful and brave in sharing your journey through this. Don't let it bring you down, you have many people caring and rooting with you and your family. They are not worth deviding your energy for. take care, hugs Sandra Erickson.

Anonymous said...

OK< I know you dont want people to write nasty stuff, and I know I rarely write on this thing, but seriously, ENOUGH is ENOUGH. This is a place for all of Roni's freinds and family to share in her journey. To keep up to date on how she is doing, and what is going on with her, how she is feeling, etc. This blog was set up to be a space where we can share with Roni and her family, send good wishes, sometimes cry with, and always care about.
The internet is a wonderful tool for communication and this blog is a super easy way to do just that. If you find this blog "abusive", or "offensive", then dont log on anymore. Just do what I do when there is wrestling on tv, change the channel. I am sure there are many sites out there that you could log on to where people like you (anonymous effing coward )could find solace and freindship. As a matter of fact, let me provide you with one such site; kindly go to www.uglypeople.com
I am sure you will fit in just fine there. Go away, dont log on to this blog anymore, and leave Roni, her family, and all her friends alone. We dont want to play with you anymore.

Suzanne W

Anonymous said...

I don't know what was said (and I don't want to know) so I can't pretend to even fathom why someone would say such negative things. But all you need to take from it is that for every negative person in your life, there are 100 more positive people, who love you and care for you and yours no matter what.

Someone just had a little sand in their panties I think :)

Kim M

Anonymous said...

Regarding the person who adds to our blog in a hurtful way.

This is simply a person who has no respect. They do not respect others and as a result they do not have the respect of others. Sadder still is the fact that they do not respect themselves.

This person, when looking into a mirror sees the reflection of a coward. They skulk about in the shadows of the internet and take pot shots at whomever they encounter who they feel is in a weakened position and thus vulnerable to their droll little attacks. Having come to the realization of their total insignificance they manifest their disappointment into anger that they allow to rule their lives. They lash out at innocents in a feeble attempt to make themselves the centre of attention.

I would suggest to the administrators of the blog that should this person resurface you simply delete their comments and say nothing. In this way we are not feeding their need for recognition. They will get bored and move on to masturbate elsewhere.

Brian

Anonymous said...

Roni,

You know from "the tea party sisters" and all your friends here that there are so many people sending you positive thoughts. One sad selfish person is just that: one sad selfish person. Let's all say a prayer for this person, along with our prayers for your health, and then move on with our eyes on the positive. Mary Margaret

Anonymous said...

Roni your positive sunny outlook is an inspiration to all of us battling this horrible disease. i read your blog and know that i will beat this. we obviously go to the same hairdresser as we both have the same hairstyle now.
LOL
Hugs and kisses from South Africa
Brian Botha

Anonymous said...

I just looked at your blog to see the latest update and read that someone had been nasty and hurtful to you ... I just don't understand what would make them write anything negative ... you have been nothing but wonderful in sharing your journey with us ... giving us a real sense of what people fighting this horrible disease are going through .. your step by step approach has been very enlightening.
I know it is so hard not to let such people affect you ... but I hope you know that the vast majority of us think you are great person and are fighting this cancer with determination and grace. You have more fans than you really know.
Hugs and Best Wishes Roni
Linda Bonin

Anonymous said...

Just popping in to say that I'm thinking about you Roni and even when I'm checking into the blog, I send you good thoughts every day. Kudos to Megan for keeping up with this. Your little sunbeam Ryan makes all of us smile - I can only imagine how much joy he brings to all of you. Keep up the fight Roni - we love ya!

Anonymous said...

Sending you all the best from over here Roni,don't lets give these ignorant people any more of your precious Blog space/time,ignore them!
Wishinh you happy results from those tests soon!
Love,Sandy,England.

Donna R. said...

Hi Roni,

I am following your journey. Stay strong. You are one of a kind and after reading about the nasty blogger, remember, only your family and friends count. Everyone cares though - don't forget that!

All the Best,
Donna R.

Anonymous said...

Just want to say thanks to the people who have left comments here - one of you didn't put your name - would love to know who you are and two of you - Donna and Linda - I don't know you and I would like to.

Roni

Anonymous said...

My best wishes to your family Roni.I am sure your mother will be allright in a short time. She looks like a brave woman.
You have got a beautiful faily.
My best wishes and love to you all.
ilksev gogeakin

Anonymous said...

hi Roni ... it's Linda again .. you wanted to know a little about me .. well I live in Nova Scotia and like a lot of people, have had cancer affect a family member with not good results. I also have liver disease that the natural progression of is at the end will be liver cancer... but if I'm real lucky .. old age will take me before the cancer.
so you see why I'm so interested in your journey ... and like I told you .. the step by step account of your journey is so very helpful. the pics on your blog show such a lovely family.
I'm 56 ... semi separated ... have 2 sons ages 33 and 22 ... have 1 granddaughter age 11 and 1 grandson age 7.
I'm also a member of the women 50 plus group.
well that's enough for now ... take care .. hugs and best wishes ..
Linda Bonin